Is An Elopement Right For You?
What actually is an Elopement?
An elopement is a day (or two) just about the two of you; no one else, that is ANYWHERE you want to be, doing ANYTHING you want do.
It’s an intentional decision between you and your partner on how you want to spend the best day ever. Traditional weddings with 100+ are wonderful but are not necessary for everyone, and that’s OK!
If you're considering getting married and the idea of a big wedding ceremony and reception isn't your cup of tea, you might want to think about eloping instead. While elopements have traditionally been seen as a spur-of-the-moment, secret affair, they can actually be a beautiful and meaningful way to tie the knot. Here are a few reasons why an elopement might be right for you:
You want an intimate ceremony.
If you're the kind of person who feels uncomfortable in front of large crowds, an elopement might be the perfect choice for you. An elopement allows you to have a ceremony that's just you and your partner (and maybe a few close friends or family members, if you choose), without the pressure of performing for a large audience.More focus on your love story
With an elopement, you can focus on what really matters - your love story. Without the distractions of a big wedding, you can spend quality time with your partner and make your day all about the two of you. This can create a more meaningful and intimate experience that you'll remember for a lifetime.More freedom and flexibility
With an elopement, you have more freedom and flexibility to plan the day exactly how you want it. You can choose the location, the time, and the style of your ceremony without worrying about pleasing anyone else. This can lead to a more relaxed and stress-free day that is all about you and your partner.More adventurous.
Elopements can be a great way to explore new places and have unique experiences. You can choose to get married in a beautiful location that has personal significance to you, whether it's a mountaintop or a beach. This can make your day feel like an adventure and create lasting memories.More privacy
If you're someone who values privacy, an elopement might be right for you. With fewer people around, you can have a more intimate and private experience. This can also make it easier to be present in the moment and truly connect with your partner.
So, what does that mean for you and your partner? Do you two love hiking and camping? Do you love a good brewery? Are you both foodies? Want to do your first dance at the top of a mountain? Elopements are amazing because they stray away from tradition, and are truly about the things that the two of you enjoy doing TOGETHER.
Part of my job as your elopement photographer is creating a custom timeline for your best day ever! I want your day to feel entirely custom just to you. To give you an idea of what your best day ever can look like when you elope, whether it’s in Colorado, Utah, Arizona, Iceland, etc. here’s a sample timeline:
11:00 pm - Get ready at Airbnb
12:00 pm - Getting Ready Photos
12:30 pm - First Look outside Airbnb
1:00 pm - Drive RV to the trailhead
1:30 pm - Hike to Upper Beaver Meadows (RMNP)
3:00 pm - Exchange Vows/Ceremony/First Dance
4:00 pm - Couple Portraits
5:00 pm - Champagne Pop/head back to Airbnb
6:00 pm - Private Chef Dinner
7:00 pm - Cake Cutting/Final Photos
Not sure what to actually do or what activities to participate in for your elopement, below are some great ideas to help you visualize your day!
Have a professionally styled/curated picnic on top of a mountain
Go for an offroading adventure in an ATV
Rent a vintage car to have your own little private getaway
Camp underneath the stars while cozying up to a fire and making s’mores
Play a round of mini golf in your wedding dress and tux
Go to your favorite brewery and toast to the two of you
Have a professional chef come and create the fanciest and most delicious meal just for the two of you
Elope on the slopes! Exchange your vows on the ski lift and on top of the trail and race down to the end of the trail for your first kiss as a married couple!
Chill & relax together at a hot springs
Hike up your favorite trail in your wedding dress and hiking boots
These are just a few ideas to help get you started! If I get the honor of being your elopement photographer, one of the first things I do is send you over my customized elopement guide to help get the party started!
No matter what you decide to do for your elopement, I’m here to support you and be your ultimate “woo” girl and friend. Is the 4-hour package or 12-hour package right for you? Somewhere in between? or something MORE? I’m also there for you if you need ideas! Is the timeline above not speaking to you? Let’s create one that does!
Have questions? Fill out a contact form or e-mail me at esbeemophoto@gmail.com
and I will back to you ASAP.
